You're the foremost expert on what gets you off, so, by all means, lend your expertise. Research in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy found — somewhat unsurprisingly — that women with an increased likelihood of orgasm demanded more time between the sheets. Think of the entire experience of intimacy as fluid, not necessarily building toward climax, or toward anything at all. My Experience With The Female Orgasm My experience with the female orgasm was not always good… in fact it was terrible — trauma-causing terrible. Or demonstrate how you like to be touched, then say, "Why don't you take over?
Real Women Share 9 Tips For How to Give Them an Orgasm
Once you can climax easily on your own, you'll find it much easier to have really exciting times with a partner. But what position? It's not dissimilar to patting your head while rubbing your tummy but way more worth it. Repeat the same move between her legs continuously and patiently. But I was wrong.