How will your roommate feel about the situation? Neither he, or your roommate, were trying to hurt you in anyway. They might invite my ex-roommate. I was being somewhat sardonic. Take up a new hobby or find a great coffee shop to study in.
You should tell her that because she always seems so unhappy during and after these parties, it might be best to take a break from large-scale entertaining.
Ex-boyfriend is dating my roommate. What to do?
I'd be furious read 5 months. The next time you host a gathering, you should tell her that she will be your guest and that you will handle the hosting duties. Is there any way to salvage this friendship, while keeping my ex out of the picture? Yes, you knew it might end badly, and yes, you did it anyway. I believe that when you offer to host a party, you should take care of everything and if you want help, ask for it, but I do not expect people to come and work. He turned his head so I could only kiss his cheek and said "I think we need to talk. Your wife is obviously stressed by the effort these large gatherings require.